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Today is the day that your relationship starts to get better. You will begin to communicate more effectively, openly and honestly. You will no longer fight or get upset over little things that in the scheme of things are unimportant. You will begin to show more affection and support for each other and treat each other better than you treat yourself. Your relationship with your spouse or partner will be the most important one you have. This is my prayer for you and I happen to believe that it's possible to improve any relationship and figure out how to stay together.

How do some couples seem to stay together forever and others go through breakup after breakup? If at first you don't succeed try try again right? Only in Hollywood does this motto work. I have nothing against celebrity relationships but that's not the example we should strive to follow.

Here are the tips on how to stay together you should follow:

1. Begin to communicate more openly and honestly. It is very easy to have communication breakdowns or problems in any relationship. The more you let the problems persist the deeper the problem will become and the harder it will be to recover. Avoid telling the innocent "white lies" that make you walk around feeling guilty and defensive.
2. Stop making a big deal out of little things. Learn how to refrain from criticizing every thing your partner or spouse does or says. It's not just that you shouldn't put him or her under a microscope but you also shouldn't act annoyed or displeased all the time. If looks could kill your partner or spouse would probably be dead by now. Learn how to zip and skip. Zip your lips and skip over the little things that normally make your blood boil.
3. Make your partner or spouse feel more loved and appreciated. It's so easy to take him or her for granted. You no longer feel the need to put forth and effort to display love and affection right? Perhaps you are too tired or think he or she knows how much you love and appreciate them. Well if you want to stay together you will need to figure out how to show how much you love and appreciate him or her. If you don't make them feel loved perhaps someone else will and then you know what can happen right? Let your spouse know and feel that you are there for them.
4. Try to give rather than receive from your partner or spouse. Your goal should be to make him or her feel like you value them more than yourself. It doesn't mean that you let them have their way all the time. It just means that most of the time you should be considering the needs, desires and wishes ahead of your own. Your spouse or partner will not be able to resist your unselfishness and want to do the same.
5. Make sure your relationship with your spouse or partner is second to none (excluding a relationship with God). It's very easy to let relationships with children, family, friends or co-workers get in the way of a relationship with a spouse or partner. If you are spending too much time with others then you are investing in the wrong relationship. Your spouse or partner should feel like there is a reason for staying together and not have to figure out how to compete for your time, love or affection.

I believe without a doubt that this day or this very hour you can begin strengthening your relationship. Starting with the next thought or next conversation or the next eye contact you make with your partner or spouse is when you can make it happen.

I've listed a few tips here to get you started on the road to a better relationship. There are many other strategies you can try to make for a blissful relationship.

Relationships can get a little too difficult to deal with once the initial newness wears off. After you see each other in your worst possible avatars and let complacence take over keeping your boyfriend interested in you can become a tad bit difficult but it can be done with a bit of work. Here are a few things that you need to do to keep your boyfriend interested.

Get a new look
You get tired of the way you look right? So why blame your man if he says the same? Do something dramatic and change the way you look. It could be a new hairstyle or a wardrobe change. All is fair when done to keep the other interested and take notice of you.

Get busy with your own life
Hanging out with your boyfriend all the time? Well that has to change. Be a little independent and get a life of your own. Enjoy your space, do things that excite you and have a busy life. That will make sure that you don't bore him with nothing to talk about.

Don't step on his space
Men prize their space like nothing else. So don't step over that invisible line that he has drawn separating "yours" and "mine". Stay away from his stuff and never check his phone. Trust him enough to make him feel responsible towards you and he will respect you and stay interested in you.

Understand how his mind works
Read the silent messages of protest that he sends out to you every time you blackmail him emotionally and make him do something he really doesn't want to do. Forcing him to go to your mother's house or dragging him for shopping when all he wants to do is grab a few beers and relax at home is not what you should be doing.

Ignore him to excite him
Sometimes a little bit of ignoring can work wonders to keep a man interested in you. Make him chase you a bit even if he is your boyfriend. Don't make him feel so comfortable that he takes you for granted. So disconnect his calls occasionally or cancel on him citing unavoidable circumstances. He will remain interested in you as he has to compete with the other things occupying your life.

Get a little raunchy
Sex is another way of keeping your boyfriend interested in you. Keep the action spicy and raunchy and he will be hooked to you.

Be there for him
Make him feel like you will always be there for him and mean it. Be there to support him and to celebrate with him and he will truly value you and remain interested in you.