How Do I Convince My Man to Commit to Me & Have a Proper Relationship? Read This Right Now

A man might be in a relation for a long time but is almost unwilling to commit formally. If this is your story and you want to persuade your man to commit to you then you will have to play some mind games. These mind games will make sure that he feels like he is willing to get into a committed relationship. Here is what you need to do.

Don't let him in on your secret
To begin with don't let him know what you have been thinking of. The minute he gets to know of what you are thinking he will begin charging his defense mechanisms and will make it almost impossible for you to reach through to him. So keep your secret to yourself for just a little while.

Be independent
You need to make your boyfriend feel like you are an independent woman and do not intend to become a pile on. So ensure that he has his own life and you have yours. Don't step over each other's toes and make him feel really comfortable having you around.

Plan some nice surprises
Next thing to do is to plan him some nice surprises. The idea is to make him feel really special with you. Don't hesitate to show him that you care. Pamper him, please him and make him feel on top of the world just by being you. Celebrate his joys and successes and don't hesitate to reward him with sexual favors.

Let him in easy
Slowly begin to let him in on what you are thinking. Be very diplomatic about it as you don't want him to think that all the nice things that you have been doing is for a commitment. Start by talking of people committing to each other or getting married.

See where his reservations lie
Gauge what he is thinking by listening to his reactions when you talk about others getting hitched. This will help you understand what you need to do to make him commit.

Address his problems
Slowly begin to address his problems and make him open up to the idea of a commitment. Tell him clearly that though you are not looking for a commitment, a committed relationship does not mean that he will be in a maximum security prison. Show him that commitment doesn't mean control and he will begin to warm up to committing.

Don't get desperate and start nagging
This process is a little long drawn but be patient and don't give up. Don't start nagging because he won't commit and put him off completely. Be patient and you shall be rewarded.

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