Challenges of Aging and Discrimination

AGE DISCRIMINATION

Time has changed drastically. Today we live in a society where youth and celebrity are worshipped and adored. Being young, thin and good looking is an everyday aspiration. Being old is outdated and seen as an outfit. Like so much garbage to be disposed of, seniors are exiled to the edges of society where they won't be seen, smelled or heard from.

Everyone wants to be young and recognized and people referring to them as "Mama or mom" without asking offend others. One example is going to a restaurant and being offered a senior-citizen discount assuming the age. Recently, I started getting numerous mails from an American Association Retired Persons for membership. It's like suddenly coming across that ages is catching up and probably time to prepare "the will''.

While other cultures treat their elderly as national treasures, many of whom impart wisdom to the younger generations with respect, age is considered a good thing. The television channels and series are geared to attract audience younger than 35. Commercials on those stations perpetuate the myth that, although it may be "great to be silver," chances are that anyone over 50 who can still dress himself without drooling is an admiration to the society.

My grandmother lived to be 103 years old and we all treated her with respect and dignity. The cultural setting was different than most urban centers. My grandmother was not the kindest person, but she had a big heart for everyone. She gave counsel to the younger generation, told stories and taught moral standards according to societal norm. In other cultures, grandparents are not well liked by the rest of society, with the exception of the occasional lovable great granny who bakes and cooks special meals.

In a society that values youth, this presents a distinct challenge for the older person and for those who provide services for them. Loss of independence, loneliness, failing physical health and retirement are all problems exacerbated by cultures that value autonomy, vigor, and productivity. Self esteem and worthlessness becomes evident when a 55 years old professor who cannot find work, or 56 secretary who cannot be employed because she is not charming or attractive enough to attract customers. Age can be a factor, but getting professional help when threatened by above issue is recommended. It is important for aging adults to seek professional help. Getting involved with a social network for moral support is a good start. Have a good mental health as you age gracefully!

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