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In my consulting experience l have often seen two loving would be couples hold their wedding plan without doing anything about it all because they lack the financial resources to bring about their dream wedding to pass and get life kicking in the right direction, the reason is not far fetched, when there is not enough money, you seem incapacitated, but there is a way out and that way out is what we are looking at in this article, you can actually plan your wedding on a tight budget, it is possible and you can still celebrate your dream wedding on what you already have instead of borrowing to get it done, now, lets get down to business in a new fashion.

Now if you want to get married, and you lack the financial strength to throw a nice and big party, do you really think money is the problem? l don't think so either. Money shouldn't be your set back in planning your wedding. All you need is a little clever approach that is enough to start planning a wedding on a tight budget. The importance of of a wedding event does not lie in how was throw to host the party but what the party symbolize and how you were able to sue the AVAILABLE TO GET THE DESIRABLE, it also depend on the emotional value it has for those involved. Therefore, start looking for solutions and think of planning a wedding on a tight budget. It doesn't take that much time and it can be really fun. What you should know from the beginning is that planning a wedding on a tight budget, requires having some people around you to help put things in place.

To plan your wedding on a tight budget the first things on the list to cut off are the costs of the flowers and transportation, making moves to hiring a luxury limo could be almost unreasonable, wise couples prefer to have it all organized in one venue. Then, planning a wedding on a tight budget should also include the moment you organize it. Not that the fall and winter months are less expensive and the costs also vary on whether you have it in mid-week or at the week-end. There is another solution for planning a wedding on a tight budget that would drastically reduce costs. In this case you have to make do with a joint-wedding program.

The idea of joint-wedding is important especially when planning a wedding on a tight budget. It is usually valid when you have some friends who also want to get married. Though you'll have to make some little compromises, such as a limit to the number of invited people or the, this works great for planning a wedding on a tight budget. After all, you'll only be paying half the price for the site, food,drinks, music, decorations, flowers and photography, which would highly reduce the general costs. Though you may feel like losing something of the intimacy of this special day, think how original and funny planning a wedding on a tight budget could become.

Lastly we have it that statistics show that when planning a wedding on a tight budget, people are very little inclined to reduce the costs of the outfit or the music. These are considered among the most important aspects of the whole event. In the case of planning a wedding on a small budget those who suffer the most are the service suppliers that are cut off the list. Very often they come up with solutions and very valid suggestions that match well with planning

Is wedding planning taking a toll on your relationship (and your sanity)? Relax, it's natural to feel stressed out by the whirlwind of activity leading up to one of the most momentous days of your life. But once the cake has been served and your guests have left, you deserve a dream honeymoon to help unwind and celebrate. If your ultimate romantic getaway involves warm tropical breezes, sandy secluded beaches and romantic huts over the water then Tahiti (French Polynesia) is where you want to be. Here are 5 essential tips to help you have the romantic and relaxing Tahitian honeymoon you've always dreamed of:

1. Leave your heavy sweaters and coats at home: Blessed with warm tropical weather year-round, Tahiti makes for an ideal destination any time of the year. The islands generally experience two seasons: from June-October when the climate is cooler and drier with average temperatures in the low 80's and from November-May when the weather is warm and humid with average temperatures in the mid 80's. Pack light and dress comfortably.

2. Get off the main island: The group of South Pacific Polynesian islands often referred to as "Tahiti" (though officially named "French Polynesia") is made up of 121 exotic atolls and islands including such gems as Bora Bora, Moorea, Huahine and Rangiroa. After exploring Tahiti Island and its capital, Papeete, be sure to venture off the beaten track and explore some of the nearby islands for more seclusion and romance. There are seemingly endless pristine white sand beaches, underwater caves, lush waterfalls and coral reefs for you and your partner to discover together.

3. Experience something truly spectacular: What better way to kick off your marriage than by creating memories to last a lifetime? Share a new adventure together by taking advantage of Tahiti's endless activities such as snorkeling, scuba, shark-diving, surfing, mountain trekking or staying in an over water bungalow. You'll return home with not only fond memories to cherish but also great stories to tell.

4. Take time to do nothing at all: Life on the islands moves at a remarkably slow pace. Make sure to chill out, relax, unwind, go with the flow and appreciate life's simple pleasures. Awaken and indulge your senses to the breathtaking bouquet of colors, scents, sounds, textures and flavors that surround you. Lounging lazily and gazing at the sea never felt so sublime.

5. Bring a copy of your marriage certificate: Nearly all of Tahiti's resorts, hotels, restaurants and vendors offer extra perks and discounts for newlyweds. Be sure to bring a copy of your marriage certificate to take advantage of these exclusive discounts and free upgrades.

"I just don't hang around anybody that I don't want to be with. Period. For me, that's been a blessing, and I can stay positive. I hang around people who are happy, who are growing, who want to learn, who don't mind saying sorry or thank you...and (are) having a fun time."

John Assaraf, Author.

It's true that we are influenced by the people around us. This is because our energy interacts and influences the energy of everyone and everything that we come into contact with. We become like the people that we hang out with. These people influence how we think, feel and behave.

Do you remember your parents not allowing you to hang out with 'those kids' because they are a bad influence?

Jim Rohn, author and self made millionaire puts it this way:

"You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."

It's interesting to consider who we spend most of our time with and how they influence our thinking, feeling and behaviour. Your five could be a combination of family, friends and colleagues at work.

Have you ever worked in a job where you were surrounded by negative naysayers who whine and moan about everything? Over time you become infected by this negativity and it reduces your motivation and performance. You may even dread getting up and having to go to work in that environment every day.

Sometimes the negativity of others can hold us back and even sabotage our dreams. Especially if we are around them a lot of the time.

I call these people Drains because they infect you with their negativity and drainyour energy leaving you feeling anxious or deflated. They remind me of a Dementor sucking the Soul out of their victim in the Harry Potter books by J K Rowling!

Drains:

• put you down at every opportunity
• criticize your decisions and actions
• undermine your self confidence and self belief
• make you feel unworthy
• tell you that it will never work
• try to dissuade you from pursuing your goal
• always complain or gossip
• will blame other people for their current circumstances
• dismiss your ideas as 'just a phase' you're going through
• try to hook you and pull you back down to their level

In contrast there are people radiate positive energy. I call these Radiators because just hanging out with them makes you feel inspired, happy and motivated. They are fun to be around.
Radiators:

• believe in you
• support and encourage you in your goals and dreams
• celebrate your successes with you
• are nourishing and uplifting
• are positive and authentic
• genuinely wants you to succeed
• are inspirational
• listen with an intent to understand

To be successful we all need to be nourished by those we choose to spend our time with. They key word here is choose...Because you always have a choice.

You no longer have to allow toxic people to drain your energy.

Here's how you can start to improve the energy around you.

...And none of these involves you getting a divorce or leaving your job!

1. Stop colluding - don't get hooked into a Drain's negative conversation. Stop colluding and joining in. Don't get involved. Focus on solutions and not blame or walk away.
2. Reduce your time with toxic people - if possible, stop spending time with them completely. If you work with these people then decrease your time around them.
3. Surround yourself with Radiators - consciously look to make friends and build relationships with people who have positive energy and who support you in your growth. Spend more time with these people. Find out where they hang out. They are everywhere!
4. Surround yourself with success - When I decided that I wanted to be a successful coach, I started to hang out with successful coaches. I joined a Mastermind Group of like-minded people. This really helped because people shared their ideas and success strategies. Join a club or become involved in social activities where these people hang out.
5. Model the behaviour of successful people - What are they reading? How are they learning? Immerse yourself in the person that you want to be. Look for role models and copy their behaviour. This will help you to build your self confidence and commitment to your goals.

Are you surrounded by energy Radiators or Drains?

Can I say THAT?!?! Maybe it is less of can but rather should...

Everyone has that moment in daily conversation where they want to say whatever thought has entered their mind but first must ask if it is appropriate. Even free spirits become entangled in these social constraints. Luckily for Forensicators, i.e. Humorous Interpretation performers, these boundaries are somewhat muddied and can be tip-toed, or rushed, across. In the quest for laughs pushing limits is acceptable and encouraged if done smartly. Yet, as with anything, there is a line within Humorous Interpretation. Stray too far and you become a shock performer.

* DO take risks. Having a Humorous Interpretation that plays it safe might be good enough to get you into finals, but you may not have a memorable piece. Why? It's conservative, a piece they have heard before. Sure, your interpretation and delivery may be immaculate, but the piece itself lacks the pizazz to really cause you to out shine other performers. However, using a script with a topic that is rarely handled, or with characters hardly seen, will cause you to be unique. Even if you choose a pretty standard, funny piece you can be risky with your interpretation of characters. Challenge your boundaries with characterization (vocals, physicality, facials, etc.) and see them differently as most. For example, Gene Wilder's Willy Wonka is strikingly opposite from Johnny Depp's risky take, but both are valid interpretations of the material.

* DON'T be vulgar and crude. What turns risk into SHOCK is when a Humorous Interpretation is nothing more than cheap, "OHHHHHH! Did THAT just happen?!?!" humor. A string of flatulence jokes is not funny. Nor is an endless barrage of dead celebrity jokes. And does the audience really need to see you grab yourself, curse uncontrollably, or be a massive stereotype? No. No they do not. CHOSE YOUR MATERIAL AND INTERPRETATIONS CAREFULLY! If actions transpire simply for shock, rather than for some sort of character development, then the piece is trashy.

* Exception to the shock rule... If a Humorous Interpretation possesses one or two absolutely shocking gags, solely done for the sake or causing a gasp and uncomfortable laughter, it can be okay. Judgment is required to ask if the joke is too risque, but if a majority agrees it is comical then keep the line. One or two blindsides to the funny bone is a risk worth taking WHILE sticking to a HI that relies on clean and smart humor.

Comedy and Drama allows for performers to take risks and question what is acceptable and what is not. In the pursuit of laughter and truth, Humorous Interpretation performers often are allowed to utter phrases and mime actions that in regular society would cause them to be ostracized. Audiences allow for some extremes due to the "unreal" context of the piece. However, push to forcefully and audiences quickly regain themselves and are reminded that certain behaviors are unacceptable. There is a line. A line where you can either be a Humorous Interpretation Risk-Taker Extraordinaire or the National Enquirer of HI.

Sweet, delicate and intimate - this is how most people will describe the Vera Wang Fragrances. There are different stories to each perfume, exuding its own confidence and character.

Known for her luxurious bridal gowns, Vera Wang has catered to a high profile clientele that is comprised of Hollywood celebrities and New York elites. This impeccable taste for the fresh, hip and young, has been extended to the Vera Wang fragrances. It has then kept up with the demands of the market in the heights of Ghost perfume and others.

With her first perfume released in 2002, her signature scents has epitomized the grace and charm of women in different forms and colors. The original Vera Wang for women contains the seductive and sweet allure of mandarin blossom and cleaver. Bulgarian rose and gardenia are at its heart and finishing off with Stephanotis and pure musk as base. It has won awards; thanks to the creators Harry Fremont and Jean-Claude Delville who have had discriminating tastes and standards.

There have been other perfumes released by Vera Wang fragrances; mostly, catering to the young audience. One of these fragrances is Princess, of oriental and floral notes. With a playful yet magical touch of aquatic notes, water lily, fruity concoction of apple, mandarin and apricot, the opening mist is of a youthful princess. The heart is kept close with fruity guava, tuberose, tiare flower, and dark chocolate for an exotic tinge. It is blanketed with amber, wood and sweet vanilla. The packaging is sweet like of the liquid inside - heart-shaped and elegant bottle.

Flower Princess is also of the same sweetness as the first, but has intricate notes made to honor the Japanese spring season. Containing Ivy notes as the opening, tangerine and lotus is mixed to create a rather warm confidence that has Moroccan rose, Sambac, mimosa and jasmine at the heart. It is then dry down of peach peel notes, precious woods accords, musk and amber to complete the rounds.

In 2009, Vera Wang Fragrances has released another interesting fragrance - the Glam Princess. It evokes of fairy tales with crown notes of red currant, guava and pear. The heart of this heart-shaped bottle has sweet orange blossom and tangy vanilla orchid that would complement the ambretee seed, sugar, marshmallow and cashmere wood. It comes is a glam up princess bottle with pink stars and a royal princess crown that is a sure hit for the younger market. Considered one of the Vera Wang Fragrances collections, it is good to have it for yourself or as a gift.

Do you want your own music box created exclusively just for you? Then sky's the limit and all fruits would be your brain baby - just ask the customizer for all the specifications: from the base design down to the most intricate details, the customizer will do it all for you! This is what you get with a custom music box.
These boxes are mostly made to fit an occasion's theme. May it be a debut, celebration, ritual, wedding, and so on. That's why they make good gifts and memories as well.

Custom boxes are always personalized. They would not be called customized for nothing. You could have your friend's name face on it, details, quotations, information, a seal, emblem, and whatsoever. You also have control over the tune it plays, so by now, you have a clear imagination on what tune would your friend want.
If you wish to send a music box for your friend's wedding, it should be huge. Huge enough to be noticed and used on the wedding itself or even at the newly wed's home. You could engrave their names on it, the date, and the people involved on it. It will surely become a treasure for them.

What nice gift could you give to commemorate a special event for couples? A music box. You could have the couple's them song played if the box is opened and have the important milestones of their relationship written over it. This gift could then prove to be nostalgic.

Want to give your baby a gift that he or she could treasure for life? A baby music box could suit your needs. This could be helpful especially for mothers that are so busy where they have many things to do like sterilizing, chores, laundry, etc. It can help you entertain or even let the baby sleep! The lullaby it plays amuses your little one along with its beautifully coloured designs.

So, whatever occasion you could think of, have your mind operated and think of a music box that would make a friend happy. BUT, be wary of the price. Custom music boxes could be very expensive. Imagine the effort of the person who made it. However, think of the positive side - a custom music box will be precious thing that you solely own, no other person in the world will have it.

As I walk out of my front door each day, I take a moment to scan the neighborhood. For the longest time, I only saw shades of grey and white as we wait for the snow to melt. On this particular day, when I scanned up and down the street, I noticed to see the beginnings of spring: Green grass and blooming trees; blue skies and a bright sun. But to my amazement, my eye was immediately drawn to the splash of color from the flowers and beautiful azalea bushes and magnolia trees.

I no longer noticed the "typical scenery". I noticed this POP of color and instantly felt compelled to take an action... smile.

So my question is "What is your own individual POP of color?" - "How do you or your business stand out from the typical scenery?" What can you do to separate yourself from the ordinary and break away from the status quo?

Each one of us has a POP of color, a special quality or differentiator that makes us unique. What is your POP of color that would compel your customers to take action?

Whether you are in business and looking to set yourself apart from your competition or a professional looking to advance your career, be sure to highlight those qualities that make you special. In the words of Cindy Lauper "Don't be afraid, to let them show, your true colors, true colors are beautiful... like a rainbow"

Customers are instantly attracted to color, so I challenge you to celebrate yours and find what makes you or your business POP! Here are some things to think about:

Do you have a unique methodology, system or process that is unique to you or your business? For example, I am the creator of the BLAST Marketing System. This is a differentiator because I am the only creator of this system that I use in my business and teach my clients to use in their business.

Do you bring additional value to your customers - meaning specific additions that your competition does not include in their offering? Remember value is perceived by the customer so you want to make sure you are throwing in more and more each time. Give your customers the Ritz experience and offer something unique that your competition isn't offering.

Do you have special branding, a mascot, a tagline or a promise that is unmatched in your industry? Remember Dominos... "Delivered in 30 mins or less". They claimed ownership to that promise and delivered on it each time...differentiated themselves from the millions of other pizza shops. They didn't focus on offering the best pizza... they focused on delivery as a key differentiator.

So What Is Your POP of Color?